Heather Valenti and her husband Steven moved to Oceanside in April after he was transferred from a military base in Virginia. Valenti placed an American flag outside their condo, in part, to honor her spouse, who is deployed.
The letter stated she must remove the flag because it's located in a common landscaping area.
It read in part:
"In keeping with good management practices, the following requires your immediate attention: During a recent property inspection a flag was noted in the Common Area landscaping at your unit, which is a violation of the Association CC&R's. Page 6 of the Rules and Regulations states: 'No property may be left or stored in the Common Area outside any residence.' Please remove the flag from the Common Area landscaping immediately. Failure to comply will result in further action by the Board of Directors."
"With my husband overseas, this is important to us. We're American. It's not offensive to anybody. It's not even doing anything," Valenti said.
She questioned why the HOA hasn't done anything about other neighbors who also display items, such as security alarm signs and a flag with an image of a pineapple, in common areas.
"I just feel like I'm being targeted," Valenti said. "There are other people in this community that have other things up in the same exact spot and I haven't seen them taken down; no consequences with that."
"I don't want to be fined so if I do have to take it down, I would like to have everybody take down their stuff for me to take it down as well," she added.
The HOA, Curtis Management Company, did not return FOX 5's phone calls or emails regarding Valenti's concerns.